He was in another state, working and came home on the weekends. me hundred times my husband cheated on me , but i have hundred times of forgiving , even he didnt ask for a chance or he didnt say sorry i already forgive him ,because i believe one day he change and he realize all im done to him , at first,second, and third and more cheated at me why i didnt leave him or break up with him , because i love him so much, we break up one time and i cant take it , i feel im become crazy if i lost him, Your email address will not be published. Find out about our Free Virtual Training Search Login. But this last time, he told me he just wanted to see another womans naked body!!!! My whole family knows. I have been with the same guy for 20 years we have been together since i was 16 and him 18. I have no way of catching him at anything he hides his browsing history on his computer, etc. He used to call me like 5 times a day and now its been like once or twice a day for 5-10mins each. He left me briefly last November b/c he said we fought to much and he needed a break. Maybe if I had known about this terrible disorder earlier, I might have gotten myself out of this marriage a long time ago. This is where men and women differ, her idea of dealing with it is not the same as a mans idea, hence escorts etc! In some form or another, you need to NOT let this consume you. Dear Mam, I have been married for 8 yrs now and have two beautiful children. That and Narsassistic Abuse!!! I still feel like hes cheating on me. We have been together for 14 years..and he was unaware of any of my past. He saw that it bothered me and did nothing about it. Im afraid to leave because of what will happen next. Well she started posting things on her social media about if shes worth anything shes worth anything now, how she wants a movie date and other things which had me feeling like those were directed towards him. I want to give her the best advise, however my instinct is to say just pack your bags and leave, I think he is having an affair. 6) Two weeks ago, I found numerous pictures of women in his photos on his iPhone to which he responded those women are not a threat. Im on the brink of a divorce and we havent even been married a week. We didnt exchange names or anything but he had no ring and seemed young around my age, young 20s. She send a messages with her picture and saying she misses him..Then there is another girl, same country. 12 hiurs later I found an unfiltered message on Facebook from his mistress. Not thinking or caring about my medical condition or how it affects my son. Like two weeks after we got married we went on a honeymoon. We have 2 children together which are now teens. This is why I commented on your post (experience). He has taught me the biggest lesson of my life! He is gas lighting you . My husband went to a concert out of town last night. may not make for the most romantic conversation, but it's better than one day telling your partner you cheated when they'd rather you kept it to yourself, or vice versa. Reading the texts between them two shattered my whole world. The problem is we get along great then out of nowhere he needs spacedoesnt need me around 24/7. What should I do? Which I expected. He has tried to reassure me time and again and has been patient. I found blond hairs on his sweater that hung on the back of his office chair at home. I gave my husband sex for a while because I wanted to feel that I could satisfy him like the 20 year old lap dancers. He'll get that you need time and will be more than happy for you to say what you need and when you need it. I feel as if every day hes lying to me nowim so paranoid, but i dont show him that. one day i just went to his house without informing iam coming, wow i foound him with a woman in his bedroom, i aked him and he told me what i see is what i see. Tells me as a VOLUNTEER FIREMAN & EMT, needs to respond to calls. Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together about a year now. We have been married for 30 years and going thru hard timds in our marriage, not intimacy I was depressed and not interested so I dont blame this 100% on him, but he still insists they did not have xes and he was there smoking crack. Honey, I know you dont want to hear this, but PLEASE get away from him while you are young and still can!! My husband & I have been married a year & dated 5yrs, within the past couple of yrs we went through our ups & downs! Warm wishes to you as you recover from the loss of trust that you once had. Most but not all! Quite simply, the need to be right at all times is a defense mechanism. Please give me your advise.I think my husband has cheated on me with my sister-in-law.my signs are a strong gut feeling and i have seen him looking at her butt several times and and about 4 years ago my sis-in-law and my brother were our neighbors and my brother is a captain offshore so he was gone often.I came home one day and pulled up and my husband came out of there house and the only one that was home was my sis-in-law and my neice which was a baby about 9 months old.when i asked him why he was over there he said he went to see the baby.He has gone out of his way to help her we would have a party and she would be dancing and he would just stare at her.When i would asked him if he did anything with her he gets mad at me and has even cried.then he tells me keep it up just keep it up.So i told him i was going to ask her he got very defensive and said i would not do it because it is gonna cause problems and my relationship with her will never be tha same that i am gonna look stupid when we talk about it he always turns away from me and shakes his head.I did ask her and she said no way i would never do that but she also got caught cheating on my brother before i wonder sometime if that is why i feel this way.I told him i was gonna talk to my brother about it and he got very defensive he said because of my feelings that i am pushing him away so he turns everything around on me and makes me believe i have a problem.Do I?What can i do to stop this feeling how do i find out the truth because my gut will not let it go.They now will barely talk to eachother she still puts herself in his face but he is tryin to ignore her.But i still catch him looking at her body parts and then he tells me u can;t see through my eyes i was not looking at her body parts but my eyes do not lie to me and i know what i see.Me and him have been together since 94 and have 2 kids together so please let me know what u think about this and how i should go about finding out the truth even if i have to sneak around the truth and lie i need to know the truth or is he telling tha truth.Please let me know what u think am i crazy for feeling this way or am i just jealous or is it him that has a problem.Thank u, Well Im sure my story isnt any different, from the others. I dont know if my story helps you at all, its pretty grim. Should I keep trying to save this relationship or just cut my loses. Hi! He never shows affection to me in public. Her taunting and stalking and laughing at me along with his abuse has made me literally very sick. There is an direct correlation between the way husbands are treated by their wives and the odds of them cheating. But then he wont work on giving me the attention or affection or time with him that I need. If I could help you, what would you like me to do? They told me medical proof is not enough proof of the beatings. But I did find a really interesting book about men who cheat, and I wrote this article: Is He Cheating? He now uses a bactrack breathalyzer everyday after work. Do you need to know for sure that he might hurt you worse than he already has? This was the best way for me to have found I had the facts. I just want him to be honest with me. I then went into history and found that it was all deleted (which i know my computer saves, Ive found sites from there before) I bbmed my husband and told him that I found a live porn chat online, whats up? Such a smart response. Ive been the other man numerous times. Too bad for him cause hes in his undies, lol. The guy still keeps saying he loves me and want to change but I gave him 2 years thats enough and one year of legal procedures. I decided to try and stay with him, it has been 2 1/2 years but feels like it was yesterday. My kids have also took a back seat.. What do I do now? Nothing is lost it is all stored on ghost memory. I would say yes, and you should have confronted him on that point. I hesitated and the asked her in the hell was he not with her and she didnt know where he was when I was sitting in the parking lot beside both of their vehicles. This other woman saw him, they used to be friends. Im glad it helped you, and hope it helps others who might be in the same situation. Then next day he ask if i was over it and I said no not till i get to the bottom of it and he said If you dont trust the truth from me then I really dont know what to tell you so you belive me. Your subconscious is picking up on hints and clues, and thats why youre suspicious of him. So, I decided to write a letter, why I feel the way I do. Please let me know what you think, on that article or here. I want to trust him.. and I dont have any real evidence of any kind of infidelity I read the signs of a husband cheating, and he doesnt really exhibit any of these.. if anything, hes hyper-sexual with me, and always has been. we have 3 kids together, i just dont know what i should do. I am so confused. I asked him who was that name Vanessa written in his notebook, he said its his engineer. So he stood and never really apolygized. And, your children will be devastated. Other red flags include: he put a lock code on his phone (he has something to hide), he is not intimate physical (he could be getting it elsewhere, or might get it elsewhere in the future) if u have kids he could be trying to keep the dead relationship for the sake of the children it sounds like maybe you should consider talking out your problems and if you dont get the answer you are looking for, things remain the same, or you find yourself unhappy all the time, consider living apart for a while and rebuilding your self esteem (pamper yourself, hang out with fun friends, focus on looking your best at all times even when alone, just have a huge mancation and seek to repair any emotional setbacks that you have experienced from your marriage). Not only is the age gap ridiculous, its also unreasonable for him to have an emotional attachment to another woman. I would love to, but I just cant keep up. 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